गच्छ लक्ष्मण पश्य त्वं भरतं भ्रातृवत्सलम् | न ह्यहं जीवितु शक्तस्तामृते जनकात्मजाम् || ४-१-११२
You may go to Ayodhya, O Lakshmana, to see our loving brother, Bharata. It is not possible for me to survive without the daughter of Janaka.' [4-1-112]
Remembrance ( born of separation ) of loved ones causes sorrow. Even a wet cotton wick gets burnt by embracing excessive oil. Hence abandon grief. [4-1-115]